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Letting go of the people whose lives are a little toxic can be a difficult process. It is often the case that we feel responsible or even capable of saving them from their drama. Let me assure you from experience that you can't save people from themselves.
If you are truly ready for the BIG disruption then you need to clear your life of the people that are holding you back. It may sound a little harsh and that is not my intention, nor is it unkind. I think that it comes with age and the development of wisdom, and sometimes with a life changing experience or tragedy...that we truly understand the cliche "LIFE IS TOO SHORT".
In this instance I am talking about drama, life is too short for drama/ REAL drama, well that we cannot control, car accidents, cancer, death...these are REAL dramas. Comparing, longing, self loathing, bickering, arguing, enduring loveless marriages...these are all dramas that can be avoided. There is a catch though, if you enjoy this type of drama, you are not likely to avoid it instead you will crave it at a level that defies awareness.
So, if you are ready for the BIG disruption...look around with fresh eyes and identify the drama that does not belong. Stand up to the drama, if its your own, stand up to the people who are bringing it into your life. It is taking up space that needs to be cleared and made ready for the things or the people that you are calling in.
I couldn't agree more with this post. A few weeks ago there was a toxic explosion and since it's removal I have felt lighter and an opening for more possibilities. X
ReplyDeleteThank you B, for always sharing so beautifully xx
DeleteHERE HERE! I made a conscience decision to rid my life of drama (and the people that thrive on it) when I hit 40, and I haven't looked back. I avoid drama now before it even tries to sink its ugly claws into me, and I avoid the people that thrive on it.
ReplyDeleteWell written Lisa, and it is as simple as you put it. It's in our own power. :)
SO glad that this reached you Peggy...and that you agree!
DeleteWe indeed have the power to make whatever changes we truly need and want in our own lives.
Love and Light xox
So true, sometimes we don't realise the people that are affecting us with their own lives.
ReplyDeleteBut we can't always help. I think it's worth trusting that we see or we feel what we need to with regards to relationships and friendships, and when the time is right for those to alter they do. It can take some adjusting to along the way through that, and we can't always tell at first why something comes up, but I guess like most things, there's always a reason!
Love n light kat x